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Marcus Aurelius on revenge: “not to become like unto them”

For when you want to hit back, in whatever way.

The best kind of revenge is, not to become like unto them.
Marcus AureliusMeditations, Book VI, §5 · trans. Meric Casaubon (1634)Checked against the originalby Nilabh · 25 September 2026Read the original text ↗

In plain words

Marcus wrote this in private notes to himself, as a reminder, not a lecture. His point: if you answer harm with the same harm, you’ve picked up their habits. Not becoming like them is the only kind of revenge he counts.

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Worth knowing

The wording differs a lot between translations. This is Casaubon’s from 1634, which is why it sounds old-fashioned. Even the section number changes depending on the edition.

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